sure you could assume Audrey is a whore or mentally unstable like many other women are. but if you have never experienced a person like her in your life before, and have little experience in general, you are not going to be able to comprehend just how bad it can be in so many ways. plenty of "normal" women are attention/actual whores but your avg attention seeking whore vs a bpd nightmare or whatever she is is night and day. blaming someone that found out the hard way and assuming all kinds of nefarious or degenerate things about them when they were probably just lonely and looking for a connection is sussy af